site de rencontre ado 47 My husband is a biker. Not the Sons of Anarchy kind, or the middle age dude who takes his ‘sports’ bike out on a Sunday in head to toe matching leathers, the adventure kind. It’s a whole genre of riding I’d never heard of before. The adventure bikers could probably teach us all a thing or two about mindfulness. Their motivation is to explore the world on two wheels, but not in any mad dash to reach certain places by set times because the point of the journey for them is the journey itself. All they rely upon is a bike and whatever limited possessions that can be strapped to it. I’ve done a couple of trips as pillion and undoubtedly would have done a lot more had we not got knocked up as quickly as we did. Whether bikes are your jam or not, the experience you get on the back of one and the connection it gives you to the places you travel really should be one for anyone’s ‘bucket list’. But enough about that, or I might start to sound like my old man.
http://dkocina.com/category/artefactos/page/7 My point about adventure is I’ve come to realise in the grander scheme of things that this is the kind of mum I want to be. If my daughter never sees me take any risks or throw myself outside my comfort zone then how can she? The world is a bit of strange place now, between the insular anti-immigration rhetoric and the seemingly never ending issues of equality for women, navigating the path of raising a child feels to me to have taken on an added layer of perplexity. So, naturally I turn to the utopia of adventure motorcycling for the remedy – lets buy a sidecar and get our little show on the road.
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